He loves me or he loves me not? I hope NOT! Your Boss is not being so ‘bossy’ ha, in fact, he is way too nice. He marries your name with the most awkward endearments, always remembers to tell you how great you look and he even calls you outside of office hours. He disguises his flattery by complimenting you in the most professional tone ever. You are confused by the way he juxtaposes professionalism and sycophancy. Oblivion has been your day pass for some time now. Well lets put a stop to this madness. Here are three ways you can minimalize your contact with this person. Say NO to lunch dates. Take lunch before or after, if you can't avoid this, invite another employee along with you. He shouldnt mind, right? Also, avoid sharing any personal information, once you've started sharing be prepared to become even more upclose and personal; so NO, you are not sick,you are not having a bad day, you are stress free and need no rescuing. Share with Office Therapy other ways to navigate around this Boss, there are ladies out there who need our help. We know you want to keep that job so we will help you keep your sanity.#Hello